Friday, March 30, 2012

Time for Africa!

I have 5 1/2 more weeks until I leave for Uganda.  I can NOT wait!! :)
I made a blog for you to follow while I'm in Africa!  Follow this link and join me on the journey to changing the world one step at a time! :) http://myadventureinlugazi.blogspot.com/
There are many problems in the world.  How can we solve all these problems?  The answer is YOU.  You can start making a difference at this exact moment by clicking on the donate tab (look to your right!).  All donations will go to Help International and the money will be used to fund for the projects we start to help the people get on their way of getting out of poverty. :)
Also! I want you to help me create a list of pictures to take while in Uganda!  You contribute to the list, and I will try and take a picture of each thing that is put on the list!   What I have so far on the list:
An Elephant
McDonalds
Two People in Love
Many many beautiful children
What else should I put on the list!?  Help me out! :)
Don't forget to donate! :)

Monday, March 19, 2012

Slavery: A wicked topic that we don't fully understand

            Two weeks ago, in my American Government and Society Honors class, we were all asked to read one of two books or both of them if we had time.  One of the books was an autobiography of Frederick Douglass, titled, Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, An American Slave, Written by Himself.  The second book was another autobiography, but of Harriet Jacobs (pen name Linda Brent), titled, Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl, Written by Herself.
            Both of these books are slave narratives and both take place through the 1820s-1840s.  I didn’t have time to read both, so I chose to read Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl.  Reading this book, I learned a lot that I didn’t really know at all before.  Of course, I knew that slaves were treated badly and I knew that women and girl slaves were used for sexual pleasure for their masters at times, but I never realized exactly how bad things were for some slaves.  Reading from an actual account of what Harriet Jacobs went through, I saw through her eyes and words, what life was like for her and how terrible and hard it was for her.  

“Northerners know nothing at all about Slavery.  They think it is perpetual bondage only.  They have no conception of the depth of degradation involved in that word, SLAVERY; if they had, they would never cease their efforts until so horrible a system was overthrown.” – A Woman of North Carolina

            We don’t know how seriously terrible slavery was.  We know it was bad, sure.  But do we really know HOW bad it was?  Do we put ourselves in their shoes and try to imagine what it would be like if it were us who was in slavery?

“Only by experience can anyone realize how deep, and dark and foul is that pit of abominations.” - Harriet Jacobs talking about slavery

            After almost seven years of hiding in a tiny garret above her grandmother’s home, Harriet Jacobs took a step other slaves dared to dream in 1842; she secretly boarded a boat in Edenton, N.C., bound for Philadelphia, New York and, eventually, freedom.  Her flight, and the events leading up to it, are documented in her heart wrenching autobiography, Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl, Written by Herself.
            Jacobs wrote this book in the 1850s but it wasn’t published until 1861, three years before the Emancipation Proclamation was issued by President Lincoln, declaring “that all persons held as slaves” within the Confederate states “are, and henceforward shall be free.”  Even though Jacobs is living in the North in 1861, life is still a bit of a struggle for her.  Her book was written so she could try 

“…to convince the people of the Free States what slavery really is.” – Harriet Jacobs

During this time, it was unusual for slaves to read and write, so self-publishing a first-hand account of slavery’s atrocities was extraordinary.
The first thing that caught my attention was the first paragraph of the preface. 

“Reader be assured this narrative is no fiction.  I am aware that some of my adventures may seem incredible; but they are, nevertheless, strictly true.  I have not exaggerated the wrongs inflicted by Slavery; on the contrary, my descriptions fall far short of the facts.”
 
Jacobs starts her autobiography with these boldly stated instructions to her mostly white readers.  Jacob knows that many white northerners would be unwilling to accept her story, so she asserted her authority over her narrative from the start.  It sounds as if Jacobs is commanding her readers to “be assured,” establishing an active and confident narrative voice.  Also, Jacobs is about to make her sexual transgressions public, and she cannot trust genteel readers to be sympathetic.  Therefore, she lets her audience know that whatever their interpretation of her story, she will remain firmly in control of it.

”When he told me that I was made for his use, made to obey his command in everything; that I was nothing but a slave, whose will must and should surrender to his, never before had my puny arm felt half so strong.”

I love this part.  She realizes that although Dr. Flint has complete and legal authority over her, she still has the power to resist him.  His prodding causes her to erupt into the rebelliousness that defines her character and directs the course of her future.  She has longed to take control of her own destiny and she knows that she will never be able to bear slavery passively, and notes that the “war of [her] life had begun.”  She realizes that although Flint owns her body, she can remain spiritually free.
I think it is important that she has realized this.  She’s not letting her spirit stay in bondage to Dr. Flint.  Even though he has abused her sexually and mentally, she doesn’t make those unfortunate events define who she is.  She believes that she can still make it out of slavery and she has the will power to do it.
            If you have never read this book, then I highly suggest you put it on the top of your list of books to read right now.  It is an amazing piece of literature that provides an eye opener to how horrible slavery really was.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Uganda is 8 1/2 weeks away!!!!

I've never really traveled anywhere.  It's very contrary to what my sister has done.  Amelia has traveled practically EVERYWHERE!!  I was always super jealous.  But now I finally have my chance to travel.
This summer I am going to Uganda with HELP International.  It is an amazing program!  I will be in Uganda for 3 1/2 months!  This summer I will be fighting poverty and empowering the people.
I am so stinking excited!  I seriously can not wait 8 1/2 more weeks until I go.  It is killing me!  I just want to go right now and start on the service projects!
I think it's the only thing getting me through this ridiculous semester which has no breaks.
Before I leave, I am going to make another blog just for it.  I will give the URL once I make it.  I hope you will all follow and feel like you are in Uganda with me! :)
Or you could really come to Uganda with me!  Or some other country (Fiji, Tanzania, India, Belize, Peru, Thailand, El Salvador, Nicaragua).  There's about 40 more spots left for this summer to join!!  If you want more info, go to http://help-international.org/  :)
Also, if you want to see what has been done in Uganda already or what we may continue doing this summer check out HELP's blog for Lugazi, Uganda: http://ugandalugazi.help-international.org/
These are some pictures from previous years of HELP volunteers going to Uganda.  I am so excited! :)
OH!  I will also will be starting a "Can you spot this?" list.  I will want you to give me a list of things that I could possibly see in Africa, and I will try and take a picture of every thing that is on the list.  So get thinking! :)

Quote of the day! :)
"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others." - Mahatma Gandhi

Friday, March 9, 2012

I love my sister :)

In my life, I have been able to have a unique and wonderful experience that most of my friends haven't had.  I have a sister with Down Syndrome.  And her 28th birthday is today. :)
She is the light in our family.  She is the joy in my life.  She is my sister whom I love with all my heart.
For those who knew Mary, she was a talkative and friendly person when she was in high school and also a couple years post high.  She loved to smile and laugh and say, "Get a life!"  However, after her post-high school program stopped, she stopped talking to us.  The smiles faded and the laughs got quieter.  We don't know what caused this drastic change.  It was as if she was a turtle who backed into it's shell and didn't ever come out again.  For years, the only response we would get from her was "No".  Sometimes we would just get blank stare.  It was hard for me and my entire family.
Last summer Mary received an iPad2 from my brother's wife.  Since then, Mary has been starting to talk again, smile, and laugh!  She attends The Children of Hope Academy, a branch of the National Association of Child Development, which works with her specific needs for her to start communicating again.  They suggested we get her an iPad because of the responses they have had so far with working with this technology.  Being tight on money, we were not able to get one.  This was a blessing when Samantha got it for us.
So far, with both the program and the iPad, Mary is progressing and communicating again with us! :)
I dream of the day when Mary is made whole again and will be able to talk with nothing hindering her abilities.
Mary has taught me a variety of different things.  Patience.  Love.  Kindness.  Friendliness.  And so much more.  She has been my example my whole life and still is.  I love her so so so much.  I can't imagine my life without her. :)
Happy Birthday Mary.  I love you! :) 
There's a light in her eyes that escapes you and me. From the worries of life she will ever be free. Imperfect in form, but a soul that is pure, her place in heaven is sure.
There's a smile on her face, what's she thinking of now? Is she hearing a song in the silence somehow? Though her voice in this life cannot sing a tune, she has a song of her own.
I bow on my knees and thank God for sending Mary to teach me of love. A blessing of rare and infinite worth, she's showing me what matters on Earth.
In a world that is hers, on small nimble feet, she whirls and she twirls to an unheard beat.
Dance Mary dance, Mary dance. Dance in your own way.
Song Written by Patricia Stone
Quote of the day! :)
"Having Down syndrome is like being born normal. I am just like you and you are just like me. We are all born in different ways, that is the way I can describe it. I have a normal life. " -Chris Burke

Sunday, February 26, 2012

2nd Annual CHA 5K = SUCCESS!

So I don't have many pictures of the actual race this year. :( My mom and Sis. Vaugn took those photos.  I just have the before race pictures of us setting up.
The race was a complete and absolute success!!  We broke BOTH records this year!  It was amazing :) Such a good turnout! :)
Before I tell you our new record, I want to say a special thanks to all those that helped me put this race together and who came early that morning to help me set up.  I couldn't have done it without all of you.  Thank you National Honor Societies of Pine View and Desert Hills.  You guys helped out sooo much. :)  Thank you Dixie State College for letting us use the campus.  Thank you everyone for coming out supporting the Children of Hope Academy and donating!!  Without all of you, this race wouldn't have been a success :) Thank you.
Okay now time for the new records which we are going to try and break NEXT YEAR! :)
Last year we had 99 runners and raised close to $2,800.  This year we had around 120 runners and raised around $3,700!!!!!! :)
PV's NHS and DH's NHS along with me and my roommates.  The people who helped make this run possible!
PV's NHS L-R: Maddison, Bryson, Mr. Roberts, and Whitney
My Roommates and Building friend! :) L-R: Yelena, Catharine, and Marissa
DH's NHS L-R: Emily, ?, ?, Tianna (Sorry I can't remember the names)
Night before the race making the signs!
Again, a many thanks to all you who made this amazing turnout possible! :)

Friday, February 24, 2012

[Insert witty title here]

Oh boy oh boy oh boy oh boy!
Sooooooo there's a ton to tell.  But not enough room to tell it all!  And plus I'm sure you don't want to read my life story.  SO here is a sum up of my life (through pictures!) in the past month.. :) A picture is worth a thousand words, right?
Feb 10th: Making Posters for The Children of Hope Academy 5K Fun Run Fundraiser!
Feb 11th: Getting the race set up!  All of PV's and DH's NHS volunteer group!  Couldn't have done it without them! :)
Feb 11th: Entering the dark and scary cave...a couple hours after the Fun Run!
Cool picture, eh?! :) Taken after we got out of the caves!
Feb 11th: Marissa and Catharine!  Having fun caving! :)
St. George Temple.  I love the Temple :)  Taken after caving.
We ate too many donuts after caving......
Felt so sick we could barely move from the couch....
I got high off of them...Couldn't stop eating them....
Jillian threw a Singles Awareness Day party!  Lots of food and dancing! :)
P.S. I love Cameron's pose in this picture :)
Me, Marissa, and Catharine: Dancing the night away! :)
Feb 13th: FHE sidewalk chalk drawing contests! :) Kevin and Marissa drawing sheep and cow for our Noah's Ark chalk drawing.
Some of my FHE "kids"! :) I love my group!
Chastyn won our SpongeBob SquarePants drawing contest by far!
 
All of us working on our Noah's Ark!
Well that's all the pictures I have, but I have done a lot more since Feb 13th.  February 14th, Josh took me on a Valentines date!  To the Cheesecake Factory!  That was fun! :)
February 17th I went back down to St. George for the 3-day weekend!  Saturday I had 2 dates!  One with Skyler and later that night with Taz.  Both were a blast! :)
February 19th, Corey had his farewell talk!  It was good!  Made my eyes tear up a little bit...I'm gonna miss that guy. :) Benin is getting one heck of a missionary!
The morning of February 20th I invited all my girlfriends over and we had breakfast!  It was fun seeing and talking with everyone!  I miss being able to see them all of the time!
I came back up that Monday.  Went to school for the week.  Last night I had a date with Jeff!  That was a lot of fun! :)
Then tonight we cleaned our apartment and then went to Kevin's and watched MEGAMIND! :) That movie is da best!  It is grand :)
Right now I'm debating on whether or not to go to a dance party.  I'm tired, but kinda really want to go.  haha we shall see.
Anywho!  That's all for now folks!  Sorry I have slacked for the past month!  I will try and do better.. :)

Quote of the Day! :)
"I'm not allowed to insult guests directly." - Bernard from Megamind

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Dances, being nerds, and just living life :)

In the past two weeks, Catharine and I have gone to two dances!  The first one was the nerd dance, which I already posted about.  This dance was a tri-area dance (which means it was a Helaman, Heritage, and Wyview dance).
Aubrey, Kelsi, Chastyn, and Catharine! :)
It was HUGE.  SOOOOOOO many people and it was soooooo hot!  I danced near the door which helped a little because it had just snowed that day and so it was nice and cold out compared to the hot, muggy, and sweaty inside.  The theme for the dance was "Your favorite 90's TV character".  I didn't know what to do for it so I just made myself look kinda weird (even tho it's a normal outfit for me...haha) :)
Catharine was Fran the Nanny...I dunno who it is still, but she looked good! :)
Then the other night while Catharine and I were doing our MMBio homework, we decided to put on our newly bought chemistry goggles! :) We like looking like nerds.
Catharine and I also went hot tubbing the other night at University Villa with Jeff, Kyle, Colby, Stephen, and another guy which I forget his name.  It was pretty fun until Kyle's friend, Victoria, played a prank on us and had one of her friends tell us we weren't allowed to be there that late and made us get out and change.  By the time we found out Victoria was behind it we didn't want to get back out of our now wet clothes, so we just went and played games inside the club house. :) it was fun. :)
Last night I made orange white chocolate chip cookies and I made myself some orange chicken and rice for dinner!  I was being a pro chef last night with the apron mom made me...while eating the cookie dough too... hehe :)
While walking home in the rain Thursday, this guy started talking to me!  His name is Josh.  I got his number today!  Woot!  That's happened twice for me now where I talk to the guy for just a little bit and then I get their number soon after!  hahaha! :)
Life is good!  Life is great!  Life is wonderful! :)

Quote of the Day! :)
"Dare to dream
      Whether big or small.
           Believe in yourself
                 And you can achieve all."